Chillin-out, hangin-out or a night out-on-the-town with the girls, whatever you want to call it, have a blast but always put your personal safety first. There is nothing like an evening of fun and laughter with an awesome group of gal pals. And by observing just a few simple safety rules you can enjoy an evening out with friends and still make sure everyone arrives home safe and sound.
Who's your buddy? The "buddy system" was an excellent safety technique when you were seven years old and it still works like a charm at twenty plus a few years. Make a pact with your friends to; go out as a group of 5 and to go home as a group of 5. This group decision eliminates a serious amount of drama throughout the night.
Listen to your intuition. If you feel uncomfortable with any person, place or social setting, share these concerns with your friends. Likewise, if a friend comes to you with her own, gut instinct warning, trust her intuition as well. Sounds like it's time to grab your friends hit the road and continue your party elsewhere.
A picture is worth a thousand words. So, you're out on the town with the girls and a friend decides to cut loose from the herd and leave with a new acquaintance. First and foremost, try to encourage her to stay with the girls. She can always get McHottie's phone number and call him in the morning. If this approach fails here is a clever way to put cell phone technology to good use. Grab your cell phone and ask the new couple to strike a pose for the camera! Make sure McHottie is aware that he is in the picture too. If he isn't cool with his picture being taken, before he runs off into the night with your friend, it's probably a good sign that his intentions are not to be trusted. Now it's time to do whatever you have to do to make sure your friend stays with the people who have her best interests in mind, and that would be you, her friends.
Girls out on the town, co-workers winding down after a busy day, fellow soccer moms - whoever you are, you deserve to feel safe and secure anywhere, anytime. Follow these 3 simple tips, mix in some strong, confident, body language and your next "Girls Night Out" will be a smashing success!
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